it's funny how people try to justify something wrong. for example a friend of mine smokes and as he decided to quit he said that he was going to keep his lighter so that if someone else needed it to smoke. so i said why would u help someone to smoke when you're quitting because you know that it's unhealthy. basically, he defended himself by saying that he's looking out for that person because they need something. i mean yeah that's good to look out for people but is it for a good end. looking out for someone to inhale chemicals into their body and damage theirs lungs and everything in their body their brain isn't right. also the other night this same friend threw a bottle at our other friend's car because someone in that car threw a bottle at his car of course. even though they did it first it doesn't justify that act by doing it back when it was wrong in the first place. and i explained this to him, and he still tried to justify it. o well, i just do my best to be in honest and speak what's right and if they don't understand or agree i leave it up to God.